Yesterday, my mother-in-law gave my husband several type-written pages for our family to read. These were stories of the little miracles their family had experienced over the years, in her words "leaps of faith" that had seemed huge at the time and had made enough of an impression on her that she wanted our children to know about them. I'm so glad that she did this, and I was amazed because these stories are so similar to my own while growing up. I believe that these stories set the stage for the leaps of faith that Joe and I have experienced together. There are far too many stories to share, so I think that for now, I will tell you a few of the stories from our younger years and then later I'll share stories from our marriage…these are incredible occurrences that I think may inspire readers to reflect on their own steps of faith, to begin expecting a miracle when one is needed, and to be on the giving end of a miracle when possible.
Joe's mom writes that when her four boys were growing up, the family was pretty strapped for money. At the end of the month, her boys' appetites were just as hearty as they were at the beginning of the month, but the money was always gone by the third week. They managed because she made a lot of big casseroles. They had a lot of potato soup and hamburger gravy over biscuits.
One afternoon toward the end of the month, she was preparing her last package of hamburger with her last can of cream of chicken soup to put in a casserole, and so she was not unduly worried about that night's dinner. During her preparations, she received a phone call…could she bring food to a friend who had twenty-some unexpected house-guests after a funeral?
The phone call encouraged her to bring food before the mob descended.
My mother-in-law thought of her hamburger and soup and just shrugged…there had to be something else for her family. She would just have to be creative. She extended the hamburger with everything she could find, fried it into patties, laid them out in a casserole, thinned the soup and poured it over all. It baked up looking good and smelling great and she took it to her friend.
When she returned home, the phone was ringing and she ran in to answer it. It was a call from a large church in Corning. It was the night of their annual church banquet of roast beef, potatoes and gravy, string beans, rolls, salad, and dessert…and their entertainment had fallen through. Would she please come to sing and play the piano, and of course,
bring her whole family to the banquet?
Four boys were hard to keep in jeans and tennis shoes. One winter, Joe didn't have a coat. His had simply worn out. Coats used as hand-me-downs could get pretty thrashed, and Joe was the third child. My mother-in-law was desperate and she figured that if a coat could be sewn, she could do it as well as the next guy. She made him a nice warm coat, quilted the lining with Dacron from an old pillow and put a zipper up the front so it wouldn't blow open. So of course, the first day he wore it, it rained. It was a soaked mess when he came home and she put it on a clothes rack in front of the fireplace where she dried all of their clothes. She looked at it and knew it would never dry during the night. What to do? The entire family held hands and asked God for a coat for Joe.
The next morning when they woke up, on their front porch was a box of clothing from a member of the church.
On top of the box was Joe's coat: a wonderful blue nylon coat, waterproof and with a nice quilted lining.
Every boy knew where that coat had come from…God had sent it.
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When I was growing up, my parents sent me and my sister to Community Christian School. When they first heard about the school, they immediately assumed that they would never be able to afford a private school education. My dad worked at Louisiana Pacific sawmill and was laid off every winter. My mom stayed at home with me as I was too young for school. Even so, one of the teachers, Miss Fisher, encouraged them to enroll my sister at Community Christian. She asked, "What do you have to lose? Put her in and if you can't afford it later, take her out." This teacher explained that she had seen God provide for others in pretty miraculous ways. Throughout our elementary years, my parents faced layoffs, job changes, and all other kinds of expenses, but the money for tuition was always there. Sometimes it showed up in ways that can't be explained except to say that God did it.
One year, our parents decided to sell their used car for $800, a price that would pay our tuition for a year. They parked the car at my grandmother's house as it was located on a busy street. One lady stopped to look at it and offered to pay $500 for it. My grandmother said that she was selling it for her kids and couldn't take a penny less than $800 because it was for her grandkids' year at Christian school. The lady left but later called my grandmother back and said, "I want to buy the car, but I'm not going to pay $800 for it." My grandmother was preparing to stand her ground on the price when the lady continued, "I'm going to pay $1,600 because I want to pay for two years of their school."
There are so many stories like this one, with money showing up from unexpected places…sometimes from people who chose to remain anonymous. One year, my mom went in to the school to pay her monthly bill and the secretary told her that it was already paid. "You must be thinking of my sister-in-law," she replied. "Are you sure you're looking at our account?" "Yes," the secretary told her, "yours is paid and your sister-in-law's is paid…and I can't tell you who paid it." They questioned family members in order to thank them, but no one ever fessed up. Years later, after my grandmother's death, we found this check in her things: